Love, from the Fruits of the Spirit Bible Study Series
Feeling unworthy of love is something we’ve all experienced at some point in life. As single sisters and daughters of TMH (The Most High), we often carry silent battles with self-doubt, loneliness, or the feeling that we keep falling short. But remember—those feelings of loneliness or falling short do not make you unworthy of love. We always have the unwavering love of TMH (Romans 5:8).
The battle with worth.
unworthiness often shows up unexpectedly. It stays tucked away in our insecurities, our mistakes, and times of brokenness. The world makes us believe we have to perform and fit this man-made standard of worth, based on accomplishments, relationship status, or material things like looks and money.
But TMH’s love is different. It’s not dependent on performance or achievements but on our commitment to Him. His love is consistent and sure above anyone else’s (1 John 3:1). Even when we fall short and feel the least deserving, TMH is not slack concerning His promises to us (2 Peter 3:9).
What the fruit of Love really means
The first fruit of the Spirit is love—and not the worldly love most people are chasing. TMH’s love is sacrificial, merciful, and fulfilling. His love doesn’t shame you for your mistakes or walk away when you’re broken. It’s the kind of love that grounds you in truth when everything else falls apart (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
Love isn’t something you earn through performance; it grows through obedience and staying close to TMH. Your job isn’t to “feel” worthy—it’s to receive the truth that you already are.
Receiving TMH’s Love in seasons of Unworthiness
Here are a few practical ways to feel TMH’s presence and love:
Sit in His presence ~ Sometimes we don’t have the words, but TMH already knows. Take time and invite Him to sit with you.
Speak the Word over yourself ~ Find scriptures that speak to your spirit. Speak them over yourself throughout the day, and meditate on them.
Write it out ~ Journal your thoughts and feelings, or write directly to Him—and wait for His response.
Journaling Prompts
- Journaling Prompts
- What are the lies I’ve believed about my worth?
- What does TMH say about my worth? Take some time and search the Scriptures.
From Overflow to Others
Loving yourself and others from the overflow
When we open ourselves to receive TMH’s love, we begin to see ourselves with the same love and kindness that He does—and that overflows into how we treat others. You can’t properly love others without loving yourself first (Matthew 22:37-39). Remember, TMH never said we had to have all the answers He said to trust in Him.
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