Lets talk about it, sis.

Being single can feel like an emotional rollercoaster.
Some days, you’re at peace and walking in the Spirit.
Other days you’re wondering if The Most High done forgot about you.

It’s easy to find yourself scrolling through marriage proposals and baby announcements, asking, “YAH, is my day ever coming?”

But what’s been keeping me in the spirit and out of my head lately is this: Knowing TMH is here to guard and protect my heart and mind.

“And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:7

That word “keep” in Greek means to guard, to protect, to watch over.
Imagine TMH standing watch over your heart—shielding it from negative self-talk, anxiety, comparison, and even harmful people. That’s protecting your peace.

What Tries to Steal Our Peace

Let’s be honest it’s hard to feel when:

• It seems like everyone around you is married or getting engaged
• You wonder if you’ve missed your opportunity or if you’re facing the consequences of past choices
• Overthinking about where TMH has you in this season.

Cultivating Peace in This Season

Here are some of the things that help keep me grounded and at peace:

• Prayer and gratitude- Even when I’m in my feelings, I make time to talk to TMH and thank him for the things I have and ask him to fill the spaces I feel empty.
• Guarding my intake- I protect what I consume like music, TV, social media, and I unplug when I need to.
• Community is essential- I lean on sisters who will speak life over me, pray with me, and lovingly correct me when needed.

Peace as Protection

Peace is more than just comfort—it’s protection.

It keeps you from settling.
From accepting things TMH would never approve.
It reminds you that you are covered, chosen, and not forgotten.
It guards your mind from the lie that you’re not doing enough.

When peace is guarding your heart, you can walk confidently in your purpose—knowing that TMH is preparing the way for you.
His timing is perfect.
He’s got it under control.
And He’s already given you the gift of peace.

🕊️ Final Encouragement

Let peace stand guard over your heart like a fierce protector. Singleness is not a punishment. It’s a season where TMH is doing something beautiful something fruitful.

So the next time anxiety knocks, let peace answer.

Because, your heart is worth protecting. And the One who loves you most is already on it.Let peace stand guard over your heart like a fierce protector.

Singleness is not a punishment.
It’s a season where TMH is doing something beautiful, something fruitful.

So the next time anxiety knocks?

Let peace answer.

Because your heart is worth protecting.
And the One who loves you most… is already on it.

Let’s keep it real for a moment—waiting can test. your. will.
Especially when it feels like everyone around you is out here posting proposals, baby bumps, new homes, and accomplishments…
And you’re just trying to keep your head above water and stay focused on your purpose.

Don’t worry, sis. I got you.

Let’s get into it: how do you really find joy in this season of waiting—not the fake-smile, “blessed and highly favored” kind, but the kind that’s rooted in Yeshua and can’t be shaken.

What Even is the “Waiting Season”?

Waiting doesn’t mean just sitting around hoping a man, a job, or whatever you’re praying for will show up.

This season is about preparing, healing, and learning who you are in Yeshua—without all the distractions and #GOALS of the world.

The Most High uses this time to grow us: spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.

Think about our foremothers—Ruth, Hannah, and Esther. Their waiting wasn’t in vain. TMH was working behind the scenes to give them an expected end (Jeremiah 29:11).
And don’t doubt it—He’s doing the same for you, sis.

Real Joy vs. “Just Be Happy”

Joy’s not just vibes and smiling through the tough times. Joy is deeper—it’s spiritual fruit. It’s what keeps us grounded and steady when life feels heavy.

“For the joy of the LORD is your strength.”
(Nehemiah 8:10)

That’s your reminder to stand firm on the foundation of The Most High. That’s where your strength and joy come from—not a job, a man, or even your own vision playing out the way you imagined.

TMH brings the kind of joy that fulfills you completely.

Sis, Your Worth’s Not on Layaway

Let’s be clear being married isn’t the end all be all you’re not just sitting around waiting that’s not the goal sis.

You’re not behind or less than. You’re being built, refined, and pruned.

As a daughter of TMH, you were handpicked and chosen for a set-apart purpose. Don’t let the world or even your own thoughts convince you otherwise.

Yes, marriage is beautiful,
But so is your life.
There is beauty in the waiting.

And you’re still worthy, whole, and chosen—right now.

Ways to stir Up Joy in Your Everyday life

🌸 Morning praise + prayer
Start your day with God. Pour out your heart. Turn on your favorite worship music, praise Him, and spend quiet time in His presence.

🌸 Gratitude journal
Write down three things every day you’re thankful for—even the little things that feel insignificant.

🌸 Purpose work
What has TMH placed on your heart? A business, a blog, a book, school? Start where you are and build with Him.

🌸 Surround yourself: Find sisters in faith who get it , women who will pray with you and push you forward.

🌸 Serve others:

Sometimes, the quickest way to find joy is to pour into someone else—even while you’re still waiting for your own blessings.

You’re Not Alone- and You’re Not Forgotten

Sis, I want you to hear me and hear me good:

The Most High has not forgotten you.

Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean it won’t.

TMH sees and hears every prayer, tear, and silent thought—and He has it under control.

So keep dreaming.
Keep praying.
Keep showing up for yourself in boldness—knowing that He wants to give you the desires of your heart (Psalm 37:4).

And while you’re waiting on your “one day”…

Don’t miss your right now.

Go to brunch.
Take that solo trip.
Dress up for yourself.
Laugh loud.
Dance in the kitchen.
Praise like you already know how the story ends—because you do.

YHWH is good, and He’s faithful to finish what He started.

You’re not late—you’re right on time.

With love and joy,
Gavriella 🤍

Love, from the Fruits of the Spirit Bible Study Series

The battle with worth.

unworthiness often shows up unexpectedly. It stays tucked away in our insecurities, our mistakes, and times of brokenness. The world makes us believe we have to perform and fit this man-made standard of worth, based on accomplishments, relationship status, or material things like looks and money.

But TMH’s love is different. It’s not dependent on performance or achievements but on our commitment to Him. His love is consistent and sure above anyone else’s (1 John 3:1). Even when we fall short and feel the least deserving, TMH is not slack concerning His promises to us (2 Peter 3:9).

What the fruit of Love really means

The first fruit of the Spirit is love—and not the worldly love most people are chasing. TMH’s love is sacrificial, merciful, and fulfilling. His love doesn’t shame you for your mistakes or walk away when you’re broken. It’s the kind of love that grounds you in truth when everything else falls apart (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).

Love isn’t something you earn through performance; it grows through obedience and staying close to TMH. Your job isn’t to “feel” worthy—it’s to receive the truth that you already are.

Receiving TMH’s Love in seasons of Unworthiness

Here are a few practical ways to feel TMH’s presence and love:

Sit in His presence ~ Sometimes we don’t have the words, but TMH already knows. Take time and invite Him to sit with you.

Speak the Word over yourself ~ Find scriptures that speak to your spirit. Speak them over yourself throughout the day, and meditate on them.

Write it out ~ Journal your thoughts and feelings, or write directly to Him—and wait for His response.

Journaling Prompts

• Journaling Prompts
• What are the lies I’ve believed about my worth?
• What does TMH say about my worth? Take some time and search the Scriptures.

From Overflow to Others

Loving yourself and others from the overflow

When we open ourselves to receive TMH’s love, we begin to see ourselves with the same love and kindness that He does—and that overflows into how we treat others. You can’t properly love others without loving yourself first (Matthew 22:37-39). Remember, TMH never said we had to have all the answers He said to trust in Him.

An Introduction to the Fruits of the Spirit Bible Study Series

One way we reflect Him is by bearing the fruits of the Spirit. In this post, we’ll explore why developing these fruits matters in our everyday lives.

What are the Fruits of the Spirit

There are nine fruits of the Spirit: Love, Joy, Peace, Longsuffering, Gentleness, Goodness, Faith, Meekness, and Temperance (Galatians 5:22-23). Not to be confused with personality traits but the spiritual evidence of YHWH’s work in us. Galatians 5:24-26 reminds us that those who belong to Him have crucified the flesh and now live and walk in the Spirit.

How the Fruits of the Spirit are Specific to Daughters of The Most
High.

The fruits are vital for us as women in this walk because they’re our moral compass as we grow and walk with Yeshua . This is how we represent him, how we show up in relationships, and how we navigate a culture that defines women by acts of service, body counts, and countless things that conflict with the Word of YHWH.

The fruits of the spirit ground us from friendships, family life, and of course, in courting. They guide how we love and respond to others. As women, we often influence those around us without even knowing it. But people are always watching. Remember Matthew 7:20: “By their fruits ye shall know them.”

Understanding Each Fruit

• Love ~ Unconditional Yeshua-like love in our everyday life (John 14:21)
• Joy ~ Choosing joy, not based on good circumstances but on what YHWH promises. (Romans 8: 28)
• Peace ~ Having that inner ‘calm in every situation especially when the enemy is sent to take you off your purpose. ( Proverbs 25:28)
• Longsuffering ~ Especially in times when YHWH seems silent and you’re in that waiting season (Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8)
• Goodness ~ Living with integrity at all times not for gain or recognition. ( Galatians 6: 10)
• Meekness ~ Small acts of kindness and humility reflect YHWH’s heart. ( Ephesians 4: 320
• Gentleness ~ In how we speak to others using love, and not harshness. (Galatians 6: 1)
• Temperance ~ Honoring YHWH with our choices and using discipline emotionally, spiritually, and physically. (Proverbs 3: 5-60)
• Faith ~ Trusting YHWH completely, even when you can’t see how things will work out, believing He is faithful to His promises. (Hebrews 11:1)

The Role of the Holy Spirit.

The Holy Spirit is how we bear these fruits not simply by striving, but as they’re produced in us while we grow and surrender our will to His way. The hard part is submitting to His will and resisting our fleshly and unholy desires (James 4:7-10).

We can nurture the fruits of the Spirit through prayer, meditating on His Word, reading Scripture, journaling, and spending time with YHWH. Having a community plays a big part as well. Iron sharpens iron so surround yourself with like-minded people and show yourself and others grace.

Conclusion

It’s so important to be intentional about living a Spirit filled life as a woman of YHWH. I encourage you to take time to reflect on at least one fruit you want to grow in. Ask YHWH to make you more like Yeshua fruitful and patient. Seek His guidance and strength on your walk.

As always—Shalom, love, and light.

How to Prepare! Counting the Omer

How to celebrate first fruits

Celebrating the feast of First Fruits is done as a memorial like most other feasts. Some things we just can’t do and that’s OK the important thing is being in the right spirit and doing what we can. First Fruits is during the time of the wheat harvest in which God calls us to make two loaves of bread with leaven as our first fruits to the LORD. You can wave them and break bread so to speak with loved ones (Lev 23: 17-22). First Fruits is a holy convocation no servile work should be done on this day, so save those important emails and chores for later. We should be fellowshipping with friends and family and celebrating this new beginning our covenant with God and all the many blessings he provides. I hope this gave you a little better insight on the Feast of First Fruits and why it so important. Shalom! and Happy Shavuot.

Why Passover?

What is Passover?

I know some of y’all are like what even is Passover and ain’t that for Jewish people? And the answer is no its for those of us who want to live according to the word of God. So before we get into the 3 steps to keeping Passover, lets talk about what Passover is. Passover is a feast that’s kept to remember how the Most High God delivered the Israelites from Egyptian captivity and how Christ died for our sins. Read these scriptures to get the full story (Exodus 11-12:30) (Matthew 26:17-35). The feast lasts 7 days long including the feast of unleavened bread and starts on the 14th day of Abib ( Nisan), which typically falls in March or April the first and last days are sabbaths.

Step 1 How to Keep the Passover

First thing first you have to remove the leaven from your home and yourself for the set apart time of unleavened bread ( Exodus 12:15) & (Exodus 19). That falls between the open and close of Passover. You go throughout your kitchen and remove everything with leavening, like crackers, cookies etc. Leaven is anything with yeast to avoid excessive waste, try eating those things weeks before if not you can throw them out or place in a box and put them in a safe place outside of your home. To remove the leaven from yourself is a little more difficult it requires self-examination and prayer to remove sin so you can enter into the Passover with a clean heart. Also, during this period, you’re required to eat unleavened bread daily. Matzah crackers can be purchased from most grocery stores on the international aisles or any other bread/tortilla that doesn’t have yeast. I’ve also attached a simple and easy recipe so you can make it at home by clicking the link below.

Unleavened Bread Recipe

Step 2 The Seder Meal

aloneThe Seder Meal is done on the open or the first day of the passover which starts at even on the 14th day of Abib (Exodus 12:5-11). The Meal is typically lead by the head of household being your husband or father or with a congregation. As a single woman, you may not have those options available and that’s ok you can still keep the Passover alone or with friends. The main things you will need are lamb, unleavened bread, bitter herbs, and wine. The lamb has to be cooked by fire, so getting the grill ready is a must. No need to season or make large portions, anything that’s not eaten has to be burnt in fire by the morning (Exodus 12:10). Now with the bitter herb, you can use horseradish or ginger, a little goes a long way. Next you need a kosher wine and a small piece of unleavened bread. A good example of this can be found in the scriptures’ account of the last supper (Matthew 26:17-35; Mark 14:12-42; Luke 22:7-38). When eating the Seder meal you want to do so standing with your shoes on and eat in haste, making sure to read from these passages (Exodus 1:13-14) for the bitter herb, (Matthew 26:26-28) for the bread, meat, and wine the goal is to do it as close to the scriptures as possible the Seder Meal is ceremonial and done in remembrance of the Exodus and Christ’s resurrection.

Step 3

An important aspect of Passover is remembering its significance. The accounts found in the book of Exodus (chapters 11-12:30) remind us of its meaning. Additionally, reading about Christ observing Passover in Matthew 26:17-35; Mark 14:12-42; Luke 22:7-38. Passover is also a celebration, and even if you are observing it alone, you can still prepare your favorite meal, decorate your home, read the accounts, or find an online video narrating the story of the Passover. While Passover is an important feast that we are required to keep according to scripture, it should also be enjoyable. Make it your own by adding fun elements like recipes and activities you can look forward to every year. Personally, I enjoy watching “The Prince of Egypt” and baking unleavened cookies.

Let’s get into it! So today we are learning how to become the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31: 10 . First, I wanna take a look at what makes it so difficult to be a virtuous woman; is it our environment, lack of knowledge, fleshly desires or just life’s circumstances? ( Gal 5:19-21 ) The short answer is all of the above, so let’s dive into some of those issues. We know as princesses of the King, He calls us to show good morals by being modest, having good character, behavior, and following our purpose. Those characteristics make us virtuous women in the eyes of God and others.

What makes it difficult to be a virtuous woman?

As women of God, we face several obstacles on this journey despite the examples set by our foremothers. It can still be challenging for several reasons such as outgrowing old friends, struggling to break bad habits, or even lacking a living example to follow. However, we should not allow these challenges to hinder our walk with God. It wasn’t until I became serious about my relationship with God that I realized the little struggles that we as women face; such as, the temptation to gossip and talk about others, spending countless hours on social media scrolling, and being unproductive going out most weekends. Not to mention, the unhealed generational trauma in our community that takes away positive examples to model after. It’s those little things that we have become accustomed to doing that are hindering our walks with God and our relationships with others.

Steps to Becoming more virtuous

Knowing what not to do is the easy part however learning and practicing what to do is another thing. No worries I got you covered. There are just a few simple steps you can follow, and you’ll be well on your way! It’s not as difficult as it may sound. here are some pointers and steps to get you started.

• Morals and integrity are all about having the right mindset and doing what is right and honorable. For example, when someone asks for advice or a question, it’s important to be honest with them and not just tell them what you think they want to hear ( Prov 12:22 ). Be the friend that changes the conversation when it turns to gossip, show empathy and ask how we can help or support them. That’s having morals and integrity. ( Ephesians 4:29 ) ( Phil 4: 7-8 )
• The concept of modesty is often mistakenly equated with dressing like a grandma, but it goes beyond just clothing. ( 1 Tim 2:9-10 ) Modesty is also about how you present yourself internally; your presence in a room. You don’t want to be the center of attention by seeking it, rather, let your pleasant conversation and softness be what stands out. ( Phil 1:27 ) (1 Pet 3: 3-4 )Dressing modestly can still be fun and expressive while also honoring your temple. Avoid tight or revealing clothing, and as a general rule, if an outfit makes you feel sexy, it’s probably not modest. ( 1 Cor 6: 19-20 ) By adhering to these principles, you can begin to cultivate a more modest lifestyle.
• As women striving to live virtuous lives, it’s important that our actions reflect the Holy Spirit. One way to do this is by actively looking for opportunities to serve those around us. ( Prov 31:20 ) For example, we can show up early for events to help with setup or offer to bring refreshments. The key is to be intentional with our actions. Controlling our reactions in tough situations and showing kindness are also important. ( Prov 25:28 ) We can practice self-control by taking a step back and assessing the situation instead of getting angry. Acts of kindness can be as simple as encouraging someone, giving advice, or expressing appreciation without expecting anything in return. ( Matt 5:16 ) These are all ways we can live virtuously and reflect the Holy Spirit in our daily lives.
• The ultimate goal of leading a virtuous life is to find something that brings you joy and fulfillment. It’s like hitting the jackpot when you discover your purpose in life! But, the key to finding it wont be in the world, but in your service to God. ( Colo 3:1-3 ) When you make changes in your life to align with God’s will, you can better understand what talents and gifts He has given you. ( 1 Cor 7:20 ) This will allow you to identify what you are passionate about and how you can use your strengths to serve and uplift others for the glory of God. ( 1 Cor 7:32 )

Ultimately becoming a virtuous woman is a lifelong commitment and journey to love and live a life that is pleasing to God. So with that, grab those bibles and start reading and applying the word of God to your life, be intentional about serving him and start cultivating that relationship. Remember being virtuous is striving for the Kingdom of God not the approval of the world. It won’t be easy but if we apply these principles to our everyday lives it will become second nature. We Got This Lady’s!